What
is data gathering? Why is it important?
Data gathering
is asking appropriate questions, carefully listening, taking concise notes, as
well as observing non-verbal communication in order to understand what is
occurring in the counselee’s life. It is
vital to gather accurate and complete data in every counseling scenario so that
you can properly and effectively aid your counselee biblically. Without the proper data it is possible to
misdiagnose the real issues, the depth of the effects, and to not get a full
picture of the situation, or the counselee.
We cannot be too
careful or thorough when it comes to data gathering. Proverbs 18:13, 17 admonishes; “He who gives
an answer before he hears, it is folly and shame to him…The first to plead his
case seems right, until another comes and examines him.” Gathering data takes time, concentration and
concerted effort. Often a counselee will
express their situation in fragments, adding in feelings, pertinent and
impertinent details, leaving some parts out (weather unintentionally, or out of
embarrassment or guilt). Naturally, of
course our counselee can only convey their side/experience even though there
are often other parties involved, and will paint the “picture” in a certain
light due the fact that they are disclosing the information to you; a biblical
counselor. We must trust counselees
unless proven untrustworthy, but be aware that intentionally or not they are
speaking from their terms of reference and with their reputation in mind.
We gather data
through the information sheets we request counselees to fill out before coming
to a session, these questionnaires can be very beneficial and we as counselors
ought to read them thoroughly before seeing our counselee in person. Having a basic knowledge from these forms
filled out by your counselee saves some time and gives a starting point. We have to be careful not to “read between
the lines”, make assumptions or judgements based on their answers or lack
thereof.
During counseling sessions we need to be listening
to our counselee as they present issues; really focusing on them, and taking
comprehensive short form notes for future reference. We let our counselee know we are vesting
interest in them when we want know their situation, can recall details, and ask
specific questions pertaining to their personal life and struggles. “Be quick to hear, slow to speak,” (James
1:19) is a command that is vital in counseling.
Question asking
ought to be a well-honed skill of counselors.
Initially a tool to help your counselee feel at ease, able to trust you;
and then further deeper, probing questions get to the heart issues, the sin
patterns, how the person thinks, their desires, their fears, etc. A brief overview of the persons’ spiritual journey is always a good idea.
Depending on the issue they have come to counselling for it may be pertinent to
ask about physical health issues, sleep habits, diet, exercise, and
medication. Emotions are always a strong
factor in the lives of people. They need
to be taken into our data inventory, as well as the actions of the person,
their attitudes/convictions, their history is important (and at times has not
yet been dealt with) and can affect how they handle current situations. All of these areas of mines of information
that give us a broader picture of our counselee and help us to help them.
“Understanding and counseling people biblically is a
challenging and rewarding responsibility.
But sloppiness or neglect in gathering data can undermine the whole
process. That is why biblical counselors
need to develop expertise in this endeavor.
We need to work carefully and prayerfully at improving our
inventory-taking skills as though our effectiveness as a counselor depended on
it, because from a human point of view, it does!”1
1 “Counseling: How to Counsel Biblically”, John
MacArthur,*chapter quoted is authored by Wayne Mack, page 146
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