Define
the concept of “preconditioning level”. Use a case history, in which you were
the counselor, to show the necessity for moving from the performance level to
the preconditioning level.
“Preconditioning
level” refers to the root level of a problem, where it comes from; motives,
beliefs, habits, the thinking out of which performance and presentation
problems arise. “Habit patterns
developed over many years must be replaced by new biblical patterns. Otherwise the client will leave counseling
still programmed (preconditioned) to handle life’s next crisis in the usual
sinful way. The debilitating or
performance problem is simply one example of the underlying disposition to
handle problems in such a manner. The
preconditioning problem is really a kind of computer problem. The client has programmed himself by his past
activity to act in certain ways in response to given stimuli.”1
Because “Behold,
I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin my mother conceived me.” (Psalm
51:5) is not only true for David, but you and I and every human being we battle
sin at our very core. “This is the
judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness
rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil.” (John 3:19) We are bound to
sin, and unable to live righteously apart from Christ, but once we are
believers we are new from the inside out (2 Corinthians 5:17) and can reset our
preconditioned programming from sinful, and wrong to truth, and
God-honouring. This takes time,
intention, discipline and the Holy Spirit to guide and enable righteous
living. Right in the middle of Ephesians
4:17-32 about putting off sin, and putting on righteousness Paul writes; “…in
reference to your former manner of life, you lay aside the old self, which is
being corrupted in accordance with the lusts of deceit, and that you be renewed
in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new self, which in the likeness of
God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth.” (vs. 22-24)
A counseling
situation in which preconditioning thinking was key in aiding the counselee
from performance level issues from my own experience involved a teen who was
heavily wrapped up in self harm. She was
a cutter, and it was her physical way of taking blame on herself for wrongs
done (low grades, not measuring up to peers standards, etc….). It became clear that the underlying belief
out of which this behaviour flowed was an improper view of God’s love for
her. She firmly believed she was saved by
faith in alone in Christ alone, but somehow she had come to believe that she
had to perform to maintain her standing with God. She felt that if she didn’t read the Bible,
witness enough to others, and all kinds of other actions then God didn’t love
her the same, He’d be disappointed, less than happy with her…. This scale she
created always left her less than perfect, feeling undeserving, and thus she
had to punish
herself, so she thought. Getting to this
root level preconditioning cause was vital in helping her break this thinking
process in order to help her stop cutting herself. Romans 8:38,39, Ephesians 1, and other
Scriptural study lead her to comprehend that God’s love was in no way effected
by her performance day-to-day. God loves
that teen girl fiercely, not for what she can do for Him, but simply because He
can, He chooses to, He loves her, and that will never ever change. Once she understood this, and it settled into
her heart and changed her beliefs about God’s character she no longer felt
compelled to harm herself, but could claim the unending love of God for
herself. What a freedom it gave
her. Life changing truth.
1 “Competent to
Counsel”, Jay Adams, page 149
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